How to make a red velvet smoothie

“I want that red velvet, I want that sugar sweet.” If those lyrics touch your heart, then you’re like me and this is a recipe 100% for you. 

I have to admit I just love red velvet, from the color to the taste, but having red velvet cake and muffins isn’t the healthiest choice. That’s how I bumped into this recipe and now I enjoy a romantic and tasty, yet healthy, breakfast or sometimes even dinner.

One thing that makes this smoothie good for dinner too is that cherries are a great source of melatonin, which can help you have a good night’s sleep. Especially if you’re in constant contact with blue light at night (like your computer or your phone) you might need a little extra boost to help your body get into resting mode. (Learn more about it in this post). 

The other key ingredient in this smoothie is cocoa powder, which has several health benefits. Here are a few: 

  • Improves cognition – it helps with your memory, your attention and your ability to learn. 
  • Strengthens your immune system – thanks to its content of iron, zinc and selenium.
  • Keeps your muscles healthy – because it’s rich in magnesium.
  • Reduces risk of diseases – since it’s a great source if antioxidants. 

Let’s get cooking

You’ll need:

1 cup of Cherries

1 cup of Strawberries

1 tablespoon Cocoa powder

½ teaspoon of Vanilla extract

1 ½ cups of Almond milk 

Just blend everything together and enjoy! 

I prefer using fresh cherries, but frozen ones also do the trick. One tip: to get rid of the pit faster, use a straw.

If you want to add some protein powder, it goes well with those that are vanilla or chocolate flavored. 

You can also add some chocolate chips to get creative 🙂

Need a good night’s sleep? Have a cherry!

Yes, cherry, not Sherry!

If I did a top 5 list of my favorite fruits they’d definitely be there. I love them because they’re sweet, without being overwhelming, and you can have them like a snack any time of the day. The best part is that they aren’t only delicious, but they also bring a lot of benefits to your health. 

When I was in college I remember getting home, feeling super tired and launching myself into the sofa to watch TV with a bowl of cherries. The moment my dog (Dixy) smelled the fresh juice of my cherries he ran and joined me. I ate one half of the cherry (the one with the pit) and he ate the other half until we finished the bowl. I loved those afternoons, and now, I always remember Dixy when I watch TV and eat cherries.

Now, I know why I enjoyed those cherries so much. They gave me the sweet push I needed to get up, do my homework, and finish the day. But that’s not the only thing they have. Their deep red color means that they are rich in polyphenols, the plant compounds with antioxidant properties. They’re also packed with fiber, vitamin C and potassium, among other nutrients that improve your health, like lowering inflammation and protecting your heart.  Plus, they are low in calories! 

Eating cherries can improve your sleep

What makes you fall asleep and rest every night is a hormone the body releases called melatonin. Cherries are one of the few foods that are a natural source of this chemical, which is why eating this red treat can improve your sleep. Melatonin influences sleep and mood. It’s that element that induces sleepiness. The body is very smart and it starts releasing it when the sun goes down. However, the use of artificial light, especially blue light, can confuse the body and mess with our sleep cycles. If you suffer from insomnia or are struggling with getting a good night’s sleep, cherries can be very helpful. 

There have been some studies that analyze the effects of eating cherries on sleep. These have concluded that the people who consume a cherry-based product have their sleep and nocturnal rest improved. One of the things the people in these studies consumed was tart cherry juice concentrate, and it made their melatonin levels rise, which made them enjoy more sleep and better sleep quality.

Healthy heart, strong muscles and other benefits

Cherries may be small, but they carry tons of nutrients. Among them, you can find B vitamins, manganese, copper, magnesium and vitamin K. Having this fruit in your diet can even be helpful for your joints, muscles and heart. Here are some of its benefits: 

  • Reduce oxidative stress – Polyphenols are a powerful source of antioxidants. You can find them in colorful fruits and vegetables, like cherries. These antioxidants are good for reducing bad cholesterol and fighting inflammation. 
  • Lessen muscle soreness – Have you ever felt that burn and pain after a workout? Cherries can help reduce that. 
  • Keep the heart healthy – Because they are rich in polyphenols and potassium, they can help lower blood pressure. In a sodium rich diet like today’s, having a good source of potassium is important to remove the excess and, thus, create balance in blood pressure levels. And you don’t need to eat that many, 100 grams is enough to get about 5% of the potassium you need in a day.  
  • Reduce Gout flare-ups – People who suffer from Gout can have more cherries in their diet because they reduce uric acid levels in the blood, which reduces pain in the joints. People suffering from kidney stones and arthritis can also benefit from this effect.        

How to pick them

I personally prefer fresh cherries instead of cherry juice or other cherry-based products. Eating whole foods guarantees that you’ll get the most of their nutrients and benefits. Summer time is the best time to get great cherries. Look for those that feel firm and plump. The texture should be smooth and the color bright and even glossy. These will be ripe and ready to eat. If they’re soft, mushy, shriveled or look dried up, then they’re no longer good.  

The best way to keep them fresh is in the refrigerator. However, I also like to use them for smoothies, so freezing them is a great option to make them last longer. (Here’s my recipe for a delicious red velvet smoothie)

Need ideas on how to eat them? To eat them fresh, add them to your yogurt or oatmeal, add them to smoothies with berries or other summertime fruits, like mangoes, or just have them fresh as a snack. You can also cook them and create a cherry sauce for a pork or poultry dish, turn them into jam, or use them for cakes, pies or cheesecake toppings. Or, why not, a Cherry Sherry Cobbler like this one!

Cello Meditation: mixing mindfulness with music through an emotional journey

When I was invited to join a Cello Meditation I was immediately intrigued. I was curious to experience music with a mindfulness purpose and the effect it would have on my emotions. 

I enjoy meditation and I’m aware of its benefits on my overall wellbeing, but I’ve never been able to meditate for a long time. So when I saw that it was an hour long meditation I got a little nervous. I dove in anyway, and I can tell you that it’s been one of my favorite meditation experiences. The way the musician and instructor took us through the meditation was dynamic, interactive and deep. It was certainly an emotional ride, where I cried, smiled and came out feeling recharged and with a lighter mindset. 

Let’s start by telling you a little about who’s behind this experience. The artist is called The Wong Janice, and she’s an Australian-born music producer, cellist and meditation teacher. She performs virtual cello meditation concerts live from her living room with her cello and her effect pedals and loop machine — to make it sound like a larger concert instead of sounding like just one person with an instrument. She has also recorded some albums you can enjoy by yourself. I now listen to her Spotify channel regularly to enjoy longer meditations. 

What makes her live cello music good for meditating is that she uses deep cello vibrations, sweeping cello melodies and moments of silence that help you get into a meditative state. Music has a direct effect on our emotions and our body. Different types of music can make you feel happy, upbeat, alert, calm and even focused. And, although there’s still a lot to find out, scientists have even noticed that listening to music can change brain functioning. They’ve particularly found that music can help reduce stress. 

Stanford researchers released a study about how music and other rhythmic stimuli can alter mental states. Here, they state that “slow beats encourage the slow brain waves that are associated with hypnotic or meditative states. Faster beats may encourage more alert and concentrated thinking.” 

The experience

So, now that I shared with you what cello meditation is and why music can have an important influence in meditation as a stress reliever, I’ll take you through the step-by-step of this experience, so you get to know what it’s like to be in a cello meditation. 

For starters, you need to get comfortable. I started the meditation sitting down, but since it’s pretty long and you reach deep levels of relaxation I eventually lay down. So look for the best spot for you, get a blanket or even have a cup of tea before the experience. 

We started with a regular guided meditation to relax and place ourselves in the present moment. We connected with our breath and did a body scan to raise awareness of our body, our tension spots and our emotional state. Then Janice explained that we would go through four music pieces of her own composition. Each piece connected with a theme (or emotion) that would lead the meditation. This was great for me because I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to stay in a meditative state for a complete hour. This way we would meditate for one musical piece and then get into the next with a brief pause in between. The silence between pieces is also a moment to reconnect with the present moment and focus on our breath. Breath work is very important in this meditation. Janice even explains that you can either use your breath or the music to bring your mind back into the present when your thoughts start to move away from the meditation.

The first theme was a piece of gratitude. The objective was to have a mindset change through feeling gratitude. Here, Janice had us think about all the things/people we were grateful for while she played. She said that it doesn’t have to be big things, even small things counted. The point was to change our perspective and build up a sense of gratitude. I think this was the most emotional piece for me. I’m not sure how long the piece lasted, perhaps 5 minutes, but spending that time thinking about everything and everyone that surrounds me and I’m grateful for was very moving. By the time the music was over I noticed tears running down my face. 

The second one was about self-empowerment. We tend to put ourselves down and, instead of thinking about what we’re good for, we always think about what we could improve and what we can’t be, have or do. This was an opportunity to change that. Janice highlighted that, especially when things get tough, it’s easy to go down a spiral feeling down and expecting others to make us feel better. So the idea here was to remind ourselves of the greatness we have. During the piece we got to think about what makes us unique, what we’re good at, and all of our qualities. The mantra was “I am…” and we had to complete the sentence. I have to say that at first it’s a little hard to find adjectives and the ideas can even come out shallow, but as time passed my thoughts began to go deeper. I guess we’re not used to telling ourselves good things about ourselves. We try to be humble and not show off, and that’s an invisible barrier we must break. 

The third piece was about love. Janice explained that when things are overwhelming the best medicine is to think about someone you currently love or loved in the past. Thinking about things like how they made you smile nurture your soul and give you the strength to pull through hard times. The idea here was to think about that someone and fill our hearts with the joy and warmth of their love. It was such a beautiful experience going down memory lane and bringing back small things that I don’t give myself time to remember. When the music stopped I had such a big smile on my face.

The fourth, and last, theme was surrender. This was a powerful way to end the meditation, thinking about all the things that don’t serve you and surrendering them. Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, but raising awareness about what it is that you have to let go is an important first step. Here, we had to breathe in and think about that thing we needed to surrender and then sigh as we breathed out and release it. 

At the end of the experience we stayed still for a little while and then opened our eyes. I felt lighter and calmer, and my thoughts felt clearer and energized.

Below is an example of The Wong Janice’s pieces. This one, from her YouTube channel, is aimed for overall relaxation.

Picture: Pexels

What Power Yoga is all about

Last week we celebrated International Yoga Day, and it came at the perfect moment for me. I’ve been feeling super tired lately, more than usual, a combination of extra work and that I got my Covid-19 vaccine a few days ago (here’s why you should get it if you haven’t), so I changed my regular workout routine, which includes several hours of dance and some HIIT training. Instead, I’ve been doing a lot of yoga. Not only has it helped me manage my stress, but it’s also less intense, allowing me to move my body and not feel overwhelmed. 

I’m usually more into Hatha Yoga, which is slow paced and with a strong emphasis on breatwork. However, last week, because of the celebration, there were so many virtual events that promoted different techniques and combinations with other practices that made it the perfect time to explore new things. 

One technique I tried last week was Power Yoga. This is an interesting one, because it’s not an “official” type of yoga, it’s more of a variation of Vinyasa that focuses on building strength and endurance. 

Can yoga be an intense fitness activity?

The experience I had with power yoga was more physically oriented, rather than mindfully oriented. It requires more physical energy, which is why it’s a good workout to burn calories and gain strength. What I liked is that, although it’s not too focused on breathwork, like other techniques, it preserves this element that’s so important to yoga. 

How it works is that you go through different challenging poses, which is why it helps with strength, but you don’t stay in those poses for a long time, you move quickly to the next one, and you lean on your breath to move from one to the other. The fast paced nature of power yoga is another part of the workout, since you’re also looking for cardiovascular endurance. 

Something I found surprising was the flow. I was expecting to stay a little longer in each pose and I was surprised when we were quickly moving from one into the next. It made the session very dynamic and, even though I was not pulled to be present through my breath, I got the same experience but through my movement. Since I had to switch poses at a fast pace I had to be more aware of my body movements. I had to make sure every part of the body was aligned and in the right position, I had to be careful to get the pose right, and I even weighted each pose as it got more challenging to see if I was ready to take it to the next level. Since the session gets more complex as it moves forward, being present is about being aware of your movements and what you’re capable of doing. 

What I didn’t like is that I didn’t feel very comfortable doing this technique by myself at home. I think that, since the poses are more challenging, it’s important to be in a studio, with an instructor that sees if you’re doing the pose correctly to prevent injury. I don’t have much experience with complex yoga routines, so at times I wasn’t entirely sure if the pose was correct. Also, there were some poses that were challenging enough, but I thought I could make them, and I didn’t dare because I could get hurt if I didn’t get them right. 

So, overall, I really liked power yoga as an alternative to my intense fitness activity because it adds the element of mindfulness and breathwork to a good calorie-burning workout. However, this is an actility I’d rather do in a studio instead of doing it at home

Have you tried power yoga? How was your experience?

Why is yoga a stress reliever?

I believe that yoga is one of those practices that arise discussion and controversy. Some people swear by it, whereas others don’t believe it’s really useful. I’ve personally had an on-and-off relationship with yoga. I’ve tried several techniques, and I think that’s very important. Not all yoga styles and techniques are for everyone. For example, Bikram yoga is not for me — hot rooms and exercise are not to my taste — but I have a good friend who loves it because she can really disconnect from the world when she’s there. I prefer Hatha yoga, which helps with strength and flexibility and uses a lot of breathwork.  

I’ve been very stressed out lately. So much so that I’ve even gained some weight (yes, stress can do that. I’ll write about it in an upcoming post). So, in addition to some changes in my diet, I had to add activities that helped reduce my stress levels. When you’re always active and asking a little too much of your body you activate the sympathetic nervous system, but the body needs a balance, and to get it you must make sure to activate the parasympathetic nervous system too, which is in charge of rest and relaxation. Breathwork is a great way to do it, but I’ve also added yoga to the mix, which lets me dive deeper into a full mind and body relaxation experience. 

You’ve probably heard that yoga helps with stress relief. I’d heard of it too, so I tried it in college and in different moments of my career — hence the on-and-off relationship — but I guess it didn’t stick before because I didn’t know what was the relation between yoga and stress. I constantly wondered what made yoga better than other forms of exercise for this matter, and if it was really helpful or just something people say. So this time around I decided to research and read studies that explain the science behind yoga vs stress.

The reason why yoga is better to combat stress than other types of exercise is that it combines three key factors in every practice: exercise, breathwork and mindfulness. Yoga is a Sanskrit word that means unity of mind and body, so all of the poses, pace and practices make sure that not only our bodies, but also our minds remain in the present moment. Because of this, yoga can help reduce cortisol (the stress hormone) levels, which eventually causes other health benefits, like lowering your blood pressure and combating inflammation. 

Exercise

Not just yoga, but any type of exercise helps relieve stress. This is because it releases endorphins, which are the natural hormones that make you feel good. Exercising also boosts your energy, improves your mood and promotes good sleep, all of which help reduce your stress levels. And this isn’t just heavy, sweaty exercise, it also applies to stretching — an important part of yoga practices. 

Breathwork

Breathing intentionally is a way to activate your parasympathetic nervous system and, thus, promote relaxation. Yoga exercises match breathing with the movement of the body. This makes you aware of your breath and helps you control it better. Deep breaths are especially effective to reduce stress and anxiety almost immediately, so quick access to feeling better. Most yoga practices begin with a few deep breaths and continue to control breathwork throughout the session. 

Clear mind

The practice of yoga is about being in the moment. Poses, mantras (like the famous om) and breathwork keep our minds in the current activity. This is a great break to stay away from thoughts about the future (and your never ending to-do list) or about the past (and all the “what if” worries). These types of thoughts tend to cause stress, especially when we feel powerless and overwhelmed, so having space from them will help you relieve stress and address these issues with a clearer mind when it’s time.

And lastly, most yoga sessions end with a few minutes of rest, lying on your back, perhaps meditating, which is an extra boost for relaxation.

So, in celebration of International Yoga Day (June 21), try it out! It’s a great excuse to practice and share your experience. Already a yoga fan? Share your favorite poses, videos and tips! For a little extra encouragement, here’s a video I love for beginners. Yoga with Adriene is my favorite YouTube yoga channel! 

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Healthy and hearty soup? Try Chicken Ramen

You’ve probably heard that nothing heals the body and the heart like chicken soup. And I’m a believer of this. Chicken soup is my go to food when I’m feeling down and need a boost. However, it sometimes needs a little extra, an additional spiciness. That’s how I discovered Chicken Ramen.

The first time I tried ramen soup I was on a business trip in Silicon Valley, and I was really tired. A friend from work had heard of a great ramen place nearby (Ramen Izakaya Yu-Gen if you’re ever in the area) and, although the only thing I wanted to do was to get right to my hotel bed, I figured I had to eat at some point, so why not try it out. It was an amazing discovery. Although it was way too much for just one person, servings there are huge, the texture, the warmth and the combination of ingredients made me feel nurtured and cared for. A different version of my childhood chicken soups; one that had a unique twist. 

Make your own soup

Ever since that first encounter I fell in love with ramen soup, especially chicken ramen. And, in addition to looking for places where they serve this soup, I started trying out some recipes at home. 

Making an authentic ramen soup requires several ingredients that sometimes are a little hard to find, so with time I’ve developed a simpler version of it that’s easier to cook and still has the essence or a chicken ramen flavor. And it’s not just eating it, but preparing your soup also has a little magic in it. It makes you feel that you’re taking care of yourself and giving your body nutritious food. In the end, some of the ingredients, like Bok Choy and eggs are superfoods. 

Here’s what you need 

  • Chicken thighs 
  • Bok Choy
  • Garlic
  • Ginger root
  • Onion
  • 1 lime
  • Mushrooms (preferably Shitake)
  • Boiled eggs
  • Soy sauce
  • 1 package of Yakisoba noodles 

(Although I’ll add my suggestion of quantity of ingredients, these can vary according to what you like best. For example, I’m not much into garlic, so I go low on that, but I love mushrooms, so I add a lot. Make it your own.)

How to do it

You’ll need chicken broth, so I prefer preparing it from scratch with the chicken thighs. So cover the chicken with water, add a piece of onion, garlic and salt and wait for the thighs to be cooked. Then remove the chicken and shred it with a couple of forks. 

In another pot add olive oil and one (or half) sliced onion, 2 or 3 minced garlic cloves, 1 tablespoon of grated ginger root and mushrooms. Sauté until it’s soft and fragrant — don’t burn it — and then add the chicken broth you put aside. Add a cup of water and half a cup of soy sauce (try it and add more if you feel it needs it). You can also add rice vinegar, oyster sauce, fish sauce and something spicy if you want. I only add soy because the other ingredients aren’t that easy to find, and I’m not much into spicy food. But this is the moment to make it your own, so don’t be shy to try different things out. 

Mix everything together and add the shredded chicken and the lime juice. Let it simmer for a couple of minutes and then add the bok choy and the noodles. Once the bok choy and the noodles are soft, try it again to check if it needs more condiments. If it’s ready, serve it and add the boiled eggs. I love boiled eggs, so I usually add three halves to my plate! 

Polynesian Dances: a mix of fitness and self expression

If you are like me, gym-style workouts aren’t your favorite. I’ve been dancing for almost all my life, and I even have a degree in dance, with Hawaiian hula and Tahitian being my specialty. Ten years ago there wasn’t anything I loved more than going on stage with a more — grass-looking skirt — and a coconut bra (tapea titi), and performing an ōte’a with the rhythm of the drums vibrating through my veins. 

I don’t dance on stage anymore, but I still enjoy dancing at home as a way to reconnect with my art and burn some calories. 

I’ve heard a lot about dances like latin and zumba as effective techniques to get fit and lose weight (and dancing in general brings a lot of benefits to your health), but I couldn’t help but wonder if Polynesian dances were good enough to be considered your go-to physical activity to lose weight and gain strength. 

After some research, I found a study that proves that these type of dances aren’t just good for aerobic, but anaerobic exercise too. The study states that on average, aerobic and anaerobic energy expenditure contribute 83.4% and 16.6%, respectively. These aerobic energy contributions are comparable to other endurance exercises, like distance running and rowing. And across dances, the Hawaiian hula had the highest aerobic energy contribution.

So, if you’re looking for a physical activity that’s considered moderate-to-vigorous intensity, but keeps you out of the gym, Polynesian dancing is a perfect exercise for health promotion and disease prevention.

Tone your body and use it for self expression

Aside from the health studies, I can tell you from personal experience that Tahitian dance and Hawaiian hula can do wonders for your body, and can make you have this feel-good experience after a workout. 

Since these dances focus on moving your hips it requires you to have your knees bent for a long period of time. Like doing a small squat while dancing. This is obviously reflected on your thighs, calves and glutes. Because of the movement, you’ll also notice toning on your hips and abs. These dances usually tell a story, and you use your arms to do so, which eventually tones them as well. 

Tempo is crucial here. There are some songs that are mostly storytelling, so they are slow and graceful. But there are some, especially in Tahitian dance, that have a very fast paced, and there’s nothing like a cardiovascular workout like having to last a complete song on your tip-toes moving your hips as fast as possible. 

Additionally, these dances will help you improve your coordination and enhance your memory. Most dances will help you with memory because you have to learn the steps, but Polynesian dances are more than just steps: you have to learn the story you’re telling and what the signs of the arms and hands mean. 

Regarding self-expression, these dances help you explore different forms to express yourself and consider non-verbal communication in a different way. Since you’re telling a story while you’re dancing they way you move and the facial expression you have become part of the story, and since you don’t use words you learn how to use your body to convey the message. This has helped me become more aware of my body and my movements even when I’m off stage.

As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, Polynesian dances nurture your soul as well. For me, it’s not just about moving and learning the steps, these dances are culture. With every dance you get to learn about the culture of these islands, their history and their values, which are a lot about respect for nature. 

Because of that, especially when I’m feeling stressed or overwhelmed, instead of going for a more traditional workout, I prefer to turn up the music and dance to the rhythm of drums. Soon I feel the tension go away and my mind disconnects from whatever was providing stress. I focus on the movement of my hands, the story I’m telling and the music that’s taking me through the journey.  

Need some inspiration?

Three years ago I had the chance to visit the Polynesian Cultural Center in Hawaii. Nothing is as impactful as the way all these dancers come together to perform.

May is Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month, and it has invited me to go through my videos and photos of that amazing experience. During my visit to the Polynesian Cultural Center I got to connect with the culture, history and heritage of the different Polynesian islands, and it was a gratifying experience. I mostly admire the devotion these cultures have for nature.

One of my favorite moments of that visit was watching their dance performances live. Especially when they danced on a moving canoe!

Looking for a health booster? Try Chinese Cabbage

Something I believe strongly in is the power of food to heal our bodies. Food is a wonderful ally to prevent illness, to fight chronic health issues and to aid traditional medicine for a faster recovery. 

And when we’re thinking about food as medicine, it’s crucial to analyze the so-called “superfoods” first. Each month I’ll dedicate one post to one of these superfoods that I’ve been eating lately to see the benefits they have for our bodies and how to add them to our diets. But before we start, I’m sure many of you are wondering what makes a food “super”. It’s considered a superfood when it has a very high level of nutrients, such as antioxidants, fiber, or fatty acids, that are considered beneficial to a person’s health. 

One way to determine this is a scoring system called ANDI (Aggregate Nutrient Density Index) developed by Dr. Joel Fuhrman that rates whole foods on their nutrient content. To do so, the formula measures how healthy of a food is when you divide its nutrient per calorie. This gives a result from 1,000 to 0, being 1000 the most nutrient dense food. 

Think green

To get this series started I wanted to dig deeper into a category that is by itself considered a superfood: green, leafy vegetables. Although all the vegetables that fall into this category are extremely beneficial, I’ll be reviewing them individually, since they all have particular properties to highlight. 

As a category, green, leafy vegetables, also known as cruciferous vegetables, are wonderful for your brain health. They help slow cognitive decline, because they are rich in vitamin K, lutein, folate and beta-carotene. Another great benefit is that they can help inhibit the growth of cancer cells, because they contain glucosinolates.

Get acquainted with Bok Choy   

Also known as Pak Choi, this type of Chinese cabbage is a bomb of nutrients. Although most green, leafy vegetables are best eaten raw, Bok Choy is recommended to be cooked. It doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be eaten raw, it’s possible to have it in a salad, but because of its taste and nutrients it’s better when it’s cooked. I particularly love it in ramen soups (my recipe here). 

Bok Choy is ranked sixth in the Aggregate Nutrient Density Index, with a score of 895. This vegetable is rich in vitamins, minerals, antioxidants and other nutrients. Chinese cabbage is 95% water, 2% carbohydrates, 1% protein and less than 1% fat. 

One of its biggest benefits is that it provides a big percentage of what you should consume daily of vitamins A, C and K. 

Here are five things Bok Choy can do for your body:

  • Diminishes chances to get cancer – There are several compounds that can help prevent cancer and that are found in this vegetable, such as vitamins C and E, beta-carotene, folate and selenium. These compounds are also antioxidants, which means they prevent cell damage from free radicals. Selenium, in particular, slows down the growth rate of tumors.
  • Fights inflammation – Green, leafy vegetables have a flavonoid called quercetin. This nutrient can help fight inflammation in the body. Inflammation is one of the worst things we can deal with because it affects our system in a number of ways, from arthritis to heart disease, so having something there to keep an eye on it is always useful.
  • Takes care of your heart – In order for your blood vessels to be strong and healthy they should receive vitamin B6, and Bok Choy is rich in that. Blood pressure is also key for a healthy heart, and potassium, magnesium and calcium — which are also found in this vegetable — help reduce it. In particular, potassium lowers high blood pressure caused by ingesting a lot of sodium, which is common in diets that include a lot of processed foods. 
  • Keeps your eyes and skin sharp – Carrots aren’t the only ones that promote healthy eyesight. Although it’s not orange, Bok Choy also has beta-carotene and vitamin A. For your skin, Vitamin C is essential. It fights free radicals that hurt its looks and texture, stimulates the production of collagen to prevent signs of aging, and reduces the risk of damage caused by the sun, smoke and pollution.
  • Strengthens your bones – People don’t usually think that vegetables are good for their bones, but there are some, like Chinese Cabbage, that are actually high in calcium. However, calcium is not the only responsible for a strong bone structure, phosphorus, iron, magnesium, and vitamin K are essential to keep your skeleton sturdy, all of them in this vegetable. 

These are only a few things that Bok Choy can do for you, but certainly not the only ones. This green vegetable is also good at keeping a healthy immune system, increases your consumption of folate, helps your body detoxify, improves your sleep and helps with memory.

Have you tried it? Share your recipes! Would love to try them out.    

Picture: Pexels

One-minute meditation. Does it work?

When the pandemic started I—as many of you can relate—was feeling anxious, worried and stressed. I was having trouble sleeping and concentrating, and I had this annoying knot in my stomach I couldn’t get rid of. On top of that, I had lots of things to do and my work was keeping me much busier than usual.

I started participating in some online group meditations, which I loved, but I wasn’t making the most of that time. At first I could focus on the meditation, but after a few minutes my mind started thinking of my to-do list, all of the things I hadn’t gotten done and how tired I felt. Other days I was so busy that I started to worry about not having time for my meditation, and I stressed out, hurrying to finish my work to get to my meditation on time. 

Meditating was stressing me out more than it was helping me relax. Have you felt this way?

Then is when I decided that a daily 30 minute meditation practice wasn’t for me. I had seen several one-minute meditation videos and audios online and on the meditation apps that I use (Headspace and Journey) and I was a little skeptic about it, but I knew it was worth the try. For World Meditation Day I wanted to share with you this super quick practice that I do everyday to take care of my mental health.

Is one minute enough?

I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t just wasting one precious minute of my time, so I did my research and then started practicing it. If there’s something you should know is that meditation is not like medicine. There’s not a particular amount of meditation that you must practice for it to work. Even a minute can help you connect with yourself. Meditation is a personal thing, and you should practice it for as much time as you feel comfortable with it. 30 minutes won’t work if you’re using the time to worry about all the things you are not doing, whereas a minute can be enough if you fully give yourself to the experience. 

According to the meditation app, Headspace, 60 seconds can completely reset your mindset. Giving yourself a minute to take a break from whatever it is you’re doing and breathe is a recharging experience. 

Start right away

If you’ve never meditated before, starting with a minute can help you understand how it works and get used to the experience. If you’re busy, having a minute to relax during the day is the perfect stress-free excuse to stop what you’re doing and enjoy a moment for yourself. 

To do it, find a comfortable seated position. It doesn’t have to be something special. You can do it on your bed when you wake up, in your car or at your desk. Now, close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Feel how the air fills your nostrils and travels through your body. Feel how your breath moves your body as it goes in and then as it goes out. Set a timer on your phone, or listen to a one-minute recording so you don’t have to worry about the time you spend in the practice. 

If it helps, you can think of a mantra, like “breathing in”, “breathing out.” Especially when your mind is super busy, repeating these words in your head helps keep your thoughts out of sight. Another option to prevent your mind from drifting through your thoughts is counting your breaths. A different strategy is doing a mental scan of how each part of your body is feeling. 

Don’t worry if your mind wants to wander off. Just bring the attention back softly. 

On the Headspace site, they say that breath control in a 1-minute meditation is quite beneficial for immediate cognitive connection, which creates a calmer state of mind. It also helps with decision-making, focus, communication and energy levels. They even state that meditating daily, even if it’s just for a minute, reduces stress in 10 days, improves focus by 14% in four weeks and increases happiness by 16% after 10 days.

From personal experience, I can tell you that after those 60 seconds I feel much better: my mind is clearer, I feel less stressed, I feel calm, I’m in a better mood and I’m motivated to take on the day. When you do this every day, it helps ease anxiety, improve your mood, and be more focused.  

Now, I start my day with a one-minute meditation. Before I jump out of bed I set my timer and focus on my breath. However, sometimes I do it more than once during the day. Whenever I’m feeling a lot of stress, or if I’m lacking motivation or energy, or even before I feel like I’m about to be angry about something. It helps me regulate my mood, my anxiety and makes me feel better in general. 

Here’s a one-minute meditation you can start doing right now!

How to have meaningful conversations to nurture your relationships

As human beings our nature is to socialize and to create deep connections with others. That’s what brings us the most happiness. 

Something that people usually think when they hear the word “relationship” is that it means romance, but that’s not the case. We nurture our souls from all types of relationships, like parents, siblings, friends, coworkers, and many others. It’s a myth to think that one person can provide everything that you need emotionally. The connection you have with your husband is not the same as the one you have with your mother or your best friend. This doesn’t mean one is less important than the other. They all add value to your happiness and wellbeing and should be treated with the same care. 

Relationships must be nurtured constantly. Just as we crave for connection, we also suffer deeply when that connection is broken. When that happens, anxiety reigns and our overall health can be damaged. 

I have a very large family, where everyone is very loud and is always eager to make their voice heard. If you were ever in one of my family’s parties you’d think that communication is king here. Never a silent moment. But that’s not really the case. Lately, I’ve been analyzing the different relationships in my family and I noticed that even though we all talk a lot, many relationships are pretty broken. When I stopped to listen to what was actually being said, I noticed that people were mostly trying to make their point, defend their argument, attack the other or limit the conversation to superficial stories about people who weren’t even in the room just so they wouldn’t talk about the elephant in the room. The reason: there’s too much talk, but too little conversation. 

Listening is one of the hardest things to do. But it’s one of the most important things we must learn to build healthy and lasting relationships, as well as care for the ones we’re already in. So that’s how I got very interested in listening techniques, like mindful listening and safe conversations. These techniques are not just to repair relationships that are struggling, but also to prevent a strong one from debilitating. 

I hear you and you hear me 

For this post I’ll talk about Safe Conversations. I believe this is a wonderful technique because it touches two key aspects of a relationship: the need to have an understanding through conversation and the need to feel safe in each other’s company. As I mentioned above, this is something we should have in all types of relationships. 

The technique was created by the founders of Imago Therapy,  Harville Hendrix, Ph.D, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. The objective is to actively listen to the other in a safe space, free of judgement and without criticizing, in order to understand our differences and similarities, and to see the other’s point of view not from where you stand, but from where he or she stands.

Something very important that they point out is that to create a safe space it’s not just about the verbal communication, but also about the non-verbal. Specifically, they mention eye contact. You don’t have to say anything, but if you’re glaring at the other person, your eyes say that you’re judging and you’re not open to what they have to say. This will either prevent them from saying what’s on their mind, or they’ll say it in a defensive way. So, to get started, turn it into a gaze, so the other person feels you’re open for this. 

The creators of this technique consider there are three foundational tools to have a safe conversation. Here are the steps.

Mirroring – This step is where you actually listen to the other person and make an active effort to understand what they are saying, feeling or experiencing. It’s not about what you interpret, but what is actually being said. To do so, after the person talks you follow up with a summary: Let me see if I’ve got it, you said (add info here). Don’t assume you got it right. Go for an accuracy check: Did I get that? Now, dig deeper: Is there more about that? 

Validation – After going through what the person has to say, they’ll probably feel vulnerable. This is a moment to reinforce that this is a safe place. So continue with a phrase that implies validation. What they are saying has value, so make sure they know it with something like: That makes sense to me.

Empathy – Now is the moment to process what you’ve heard. Don’t think about how this makes you feel, but how this makes the person you’re talking to feel. Now that you’ve thought about it, start the conversation with this phrase: I imagine you might be feeling (add your information here).

As you can probably imagine, this goes both ways. 

Something important to have in mind is that this is a process, and it won’t be easy at first. Relationships require time and dedication, especially when a part of it has been broken. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable, to trust and to feel safe won’t happen in one conversation, but with time it is possible. Don’t give up if the first time doesn’t go as expected. Try again. Then make it part of your routine and, with time, it’ll even become the normal way to communicate with the people you care about. A conversation has more value when it goes deeper and when what’s being transmitted is more than just words, but also emotions.